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BBNaija star, Dorathy Bachor has weighed in on the ongoing drama between Nigerian women living in Lagos and those returning from abroad, following an online outburst by UK-based influencer Joyce-Anne Deji, also known as Madam Joyce. The controversy began when Madam Joyce shared a video expressing her frustration at how Lagos girls allegedly ignored her greetings in public, suggesting that they assumed she was trying to “take their boyfriends.”
In her video, Madam Joyce referred to herself as a “high-profile babe,” further fueling the conversation. Her comments quickly went viral, leading to a variety of reactions from netizens, including BBNaija’s Dorathy Bachor, who took to her X (formerly Twitter) page to address the situation. Dorathy, known for her candid opinions, did not hesitate to call out Madam Joyce for what she perceived as an exaggerated portrayal of Lagos women’s lifestyle.
Dorathy responded by claiming that Madam Joyce’s “Detty December” experience, which she referred to in her video, is actually a normal occurrence for many women in Lagos. “Your Detty December is our everyday lifestyle #stoptripping,” Dorathy posted, emphasizing that the kind of celebrations and social energy that Madam Joyce described as unique to Lagos during the December holiday season is a regular part of life for those living in the city.
Further elaborating on the cultural contrast between Nigerians in Lagos and those who travel abroad, Dorathy remarked, “You don’t hear us make noise when we travel for summer. Yen yen yen.” In this comment, she pointed out that Nigerians tend to remain humble about their experiences when they travel, unlike some expatriates who may seek attention when they return to Nigeria.
The controversy revolves around the tension between Nigerian women living in Lagos and those living abroad, often referred to as “IJGB” (I Just Got Back). Those returning from abroad often face criticism from locals who view them as out of touch with the realities of life in Nigeria or as trying to assert superiority due to their international experiences.
Dorathy’s statement resonated with many Nigerians online, with several agreeing that the luxurious lifestyle associated with Lagos is simply a reflection of the city’s vibrant culture. “Lagos girls live this lifestyle every day; it’s nothing new,” one user commented, supporting Dorathy’s view that the lavishness often associated with the holiday season is part of Lagos’ everyday atmosphere.
