In a candid interview with Naija FM, popular Nigerian musician Timaya opened up about his personal life, addressing his decision to remain unmarried despite his immense success in the music industry. The hitmaker, known for songs like “Bum Bum” and “I Can’t Kill Myself,” shared his thoughts on marriage, fatherhood, and the importance of personal freedom.
Timaya explained that marriage has never been a priority for him, despite the societal pressure and expectations that often come with fame. “I’ve never been a married guy, but that could change because marriage ‘dey craze,'” he said, hinting at the possibility of considering marriage in the future. However, the musician was quick to explain that his reservations come from a deep concern about personal space and the complexities that often accompany marriage.
“I just think, if I marry today, would I be able to get out? In all my previous relationships, I was the one who walked away because I don’t like stress,” Timaya added. His comment reveals that past experiences have shaped his reluctance to settle down, with the singer emphasizing that he values peace of mind over the obligations that come with marriage.
One of the key reasons for Timaya’s hesitation to commit to marriage is his strong desire for personal freedom. He further elaborated, “I don’t like going to bed with problems; it stresses me out. I can’t stand anything that bothers me.” For him, maintaining personal space and avoiding unnecessary stress in relationships is crucial. Timaya’s approach to life appears to focus on keeping things simple and not allowing external pressures to weigh him down.
The musician also touched on the subject of communication, which he believes is essential in any relationship. “If you have an issue with me, let’s talk about it,” he said. “Communication and transparency are key.” Timaya emphasized the importance of open and honest conversations to resolve issues, as opposed to allowing conflicts to fester.
While marriage may not be on his radar at the moment, Timaya’s commitment to fatherhood remains strong. The artist, who has children with different women, shared that although his kids live with their mothers, he makes sure to maintain a close and active relationship with them.
“My kids come to spend time with me, and I cherish those moments,” Timaya said, speaking fondly of his role as a father. He explained that, despite not being romantically involved with his children’s mothers, they all maintain a respectful and familial bond. His approach to co-parenting seems to prioritize the well-being of his children above all else.
Timaya’s relationship with his children appears to be grounded in mutual respect and understanding. “Even though I’m not romantically involved with their mothers, we all maintain a respectful and familial bond,” he shared, further emphasizing his commitment to providing a stable and loving environment for his children.
