Nigerian reality TV star, Tacha, has sparked a lively debate on social media with her recent comments about balancing kindness with a hint of unpredictability in navigating life. The former Big Brother Naija housemate shared her thoughts on X (formerly Twitter) in response to a question about the harsh realities of life, saying, “Being nice won’t get you far in life. Sometimes you need to be werey to get what you deserve.” The word “werey” is a colloquial Nigerian term that refers to a bold, unpredictable, or slightly crazy behavior, often used when someone adopts a more assertive or unconventional approach to a situation.
Tacha’s statement has since caught the attention of her followers and sparked considerable discussion across various social media platforms. Many users took to commenting on her post, sharing their own thoughts on how to navigate life’s challenges while maintaining personal integrity and boundaries. Her words seemed to resonate with some who agreed that a balance between kindness and assertiveness is essential in achieving success.
One Instagram user echoed Tacha’s sentiment, commenting, “Werey small, nice small. Let the equation balance… there are some people you have to be nice to though.” This response suggests a belief in finding a middle ground, acknowledging that kindness should not be overdone, but neither should it be abandoned entirely. The user seemed to advocate for a measured approach to human interactions.
Another user shared a more elaborated perspective, stating, “Being nice behind the scenes is very important to be honest, but please it’s more important to let them know the WEREY is AVAILABLE on REQUEST from the get-go. Again PEACE.” This comment emphasizes the importance of not just kindness but also ensuring others are aware of one’s boundaries and the capacity for assertiveness when necessary. It suggests that while being nice is valuable, it should not be taken for granted or exploited by others.
On the other hand, some responses focused on the value of kindness, even in a world where it may sometimes be taken for granted. “Being nice is truly a beautiful quality. Even though some people may take advantage of kindness, it doesn’t diminish the fact that there are many who genuinely appreciate and cherish nice individuals,” one user wrote. This comment highlights the belief that kindness remains an important virtue, despite the potential for exploitation.
Tacha’s post has undoubtedly prompted a range of opinions, especially on the importance of preserving one’s self-respect while being kind. Another response suggested, “Give everyone that comes around you the opportunity to experience your niceness and kindness until they let you know they are not worth it, there the Werey comes in.”
